On "But Daddy I Love Him," Taylor Swift lashes out at the crush of scrutiny she's been subject to from the start. Imagine living in a goldfish bowl – a very, very large and very public goldfish bowl. Every date, every misstep, every romantic entanglement dissected with the focus of a brain surgeon. That's Taylor's world, and on this particular track, she's done. Done with the expectations, done with the judgment. "But Daddy I Love Him" is a middle finger, albeit a glitter-dusted one, to the peanut gallery. It's a full-throated embrace of passion, of taking a chance on a "wild boy" who brings a touch of "chaos and revelry" – a stark contrast to the beige predictability some seem to crave for her. There's a hint of defiance in the line, "Scandal does funny things to pride, but brings lovers closer," suggesting the disapproval only fueled the fire of the romance.

This wild boy, this bringer of chaos, is believed to be Matty Healy, frontman of The 1975. Their brief dalliance in 2023 seems to be the muse for much of The Tortured Poets Department, and it certainly caused a stir amongst the Swifties. Disappointment rippled through the fandom, whispers of a less-than-ideal partner (Healy has faced accusations of misogyny and racism, which he denies) swirling like autumn leaves.

"But Daddy I Love Him" is the pop-infused, synth-laden big sister to "Love Story" from way back in 2009, when a young Taylor grappled with her father's disapproval. This time, the disapproving chorus is a motley crew of naysayers and disappointed fans.